**WARNING: This post may be offensive to all feminist and/or feminist supporters. Read at your own risk of being offended.**
I appreciate all that you do, I truly do. I appreciate how passionate you are and how strong you are. I appreciate how you stand for what you believe in. The problem is, you are taking it too far. The whole feminism movement is hurting itself. You have taken it so far that even other females despise feminists. Don’t you think that’s kind of sad? The foundation of feminism is wonderful. I love the idea of women having equal employment, voting and other rights. But why do we need to keep proving ourselves to men? Doesn’t that go against all feminist ideals? Feminist are suppose to empower equality, independence and strength in women. But are you really doing that by constantly seeking approval from society? All I see when I see a feminist is a close-minded/stubborn female who is so easily offended.
The Feminist movement has gotten to the point where girls are practically saying they can dress however they want and they do whatever they want and whatever happens to them is not their fault. I find it absolutely mind-boggling how a girl can go out practically in a bikini (or less) get as wasted as she wants ,to the point where she couldn’t even say no if she wanted to, and find it okay to not accept any responsibility at all for what happens next? If you decide to go out and flaunt parts of your body that only your husband should be seeing along with getting so wasted you don’t even know what is going on, you need to be smart enough and mature enough to realize the situation you are putting yourself in. Not only are you and all your friends wasted, but so is every single guy around you. They also aren’t 100% conscious of what is going on around them. JUST LIKE YOU.
If you are drunk and driving home from a party and someone crashes into you because you pulled out in front of them in an intersection are you going to tell the police that the driver “took advantage” of you because you were drunk? Or that You weren’t sober enough to get out of the way? Since you’re a feminist and you think you have no responsibility and the world lives for your equality, you probably would. But the officer won’t accept that answer.
Now, I realize a lot of you have probably already been offended and are on a rage. So let me comfort you a little. I am not saying and I NEVER will say rape is okay, nor is it the woman’s fault. Rape is an absolutely, horrible, despicable and horrendous thing that deserves severe consequences. Never should the victim be considered guilty in anyway.
However, we as girls DO need to consider what we wear and where we wear it. Now, I know this is a touchy subject and feminist hate being told what to wear. Which is why I am not telling you what to wear, I’m telling you what happens when you wear certain things. (Don’t get too mad yet, hear me out.)
I’m going to be real and I am going to be honest. I am not going to sugar-coat the feminist side, nor the anti-feminist side.
Girls, wearing sexy and provocative things is going to get a guys attention and get his sex drive going! I mean, that’s why you are dressing that way, right? That’s just human nature. We cannot blame a guy for being out in public and see a beautiful woman in a sexy outfit and have an immediate sexual thought. However, what he can be held accountable for is his actions on those thoughts.
Girls, when did we become so inconsiderate that we thrive to be a tease to all men? When did we become so insecure that we need to get the filthy attention of pigs and then blame them for falling into our trap? And the most important question… when did this all become okay?! Do we really think that it is practical to dress for attention and then complain when we get it? You are wearing that near-to-naked outfit for a reason… to feel sexy, to get attention/compliments, etc.
STOP USING FEMINISM AS AN EXCUSE TO DRESS SEDUCTIVELY.
I am not by any means encouraging long sleeve shirts and baggy pants wardrobe for women. Show your shoulders as much as you would like, wear shorts, wear tank tops, wear pretty dresses. That is not the problem. The problem is when you wear shorts that let your butt hang out, your extra padded push-up bra, your two sizes too small tank top that shows everything but your nipple. THAT IS THE PROBLEM. When you are dressing like you are asking for it, you better be able to handle the nasty comments from the pigs in the pick up truck passing by you. If you don’t like the results, stop giving the signs. And don’t even act in denial about it. You know how you are dressing. You know what you are showing the world. You know how you are presenting yourself. So you better know your consequences.
Now, the whole “women are being asked what they were wearing before they got raped” issue in another problem. As said before, I strongly believe the victim should NEVER be considered guilty. BUT… I can’t help but to think that this question arose because of feminism. Because too many girls were sending the signs and presenting themselves in the wrong way and they were not prepared for what they were asking for. Too many ladies were stripping at parties because they decided to get too drunk to know. Too many ladies were drunk flirting with men. Too many ladies thought they were just having a good time while the men saw an opportunity. Is it right? No. Is it the way this screwed up world is? Yes.
There are creeps in this world. Don’t put yourself in these types of situations for your own safety.
Also, ladies we need to learn our place in this world. God created man FIRST. He created women OUT of man. He created women to accompany man. I realize if you are not Christian, this has absolutely no meaning to you. But, men are specifically designed to lead. I know women have the ability and talent to lead and be leaders, and that is honestly great. Some of the most brave heroes in the world, are women.. and that is freaking awesome!!! But, as sad as it is for feminists, we are not above men. It’s not God’s design. HA. crazy right? Trying to implement God’s plan in this crazy, out of function, right-demanding world. Seems nearly impossible.
Yes, we need to stand up for ourselves and for our rights. But I think we are confused as to what are rights actually are…
- We obtain all of the rights as a United States Citizen. (just as men, nothing extra, no extremes, just the original US citizen rights)
- We obtain the right to choose whether we want to work or not… just like everyone else in the world.
- We obtain the right to have children or not to have children.
- We obtain the right to choose whether we want to marry or stay single. Just like males.
- We obtain the right to choose whether we want to be a feminist or not. Not all women are, or want to be a feminist.
- We have the right to use our skills, talents and accomplishments to better the world.
- We have the right to decide what kind of wife we want to be (if any) if that means cooking/not cooking, cleaning/not cleaning, etc.
This is what feminist see their rights as….
- We have the right to be the head, to be the almighty and to be praised for all that we do.
- We have the right to be viewed higher/more important than males.
- We have the right to wear whatever we want, or nothing at all and accept no responsibility for it.
- We have the right to do whatever we want, though it may have consequences, and not be held accountable for it.
- We have the right to be offered more than males in every situation.
- We have the right to be offended by nothing.
If feminist were more reasonable, I bet it would be a bigger, more respected group. Feminism needs to stand for freedom of choice; not for freedom of consequences.
The concerned, anti-feminist